... It can be rather like a shock, when you are unaccustomed to it.

[ Experience teaches much, even when it is unexpected or comes from unlikely sources. ]

For yourself, however... perhaps an opportunity will come when you can process your own feelings as well, as strong as you are being for Era and Hythlodaeus' sake. All we can offer you right now is... time.

[ Time, of all things, how ironic and perhaps not entirely a comfort. They do not know how long things will last like this for his household, but he has options and is not wholly alone to deal with them, until something more shifts within this world but better not to focus upon that concern. ]