Many of us do.

[ So he's not alone in that, either. Frankly she knows that were she faced with such a situation herself she would not be handling it particularly well, but to help others... it was always different, when it came to others. ]

But that is why they are called... reminders. You will want to bury yourself in your tasks and care of Era, but also... continue to call on others, so that you can speak and continue to engage. To feel more connected.